Not a Rhyme...just life...

As I sit here, wasting time… observing people, there is something I've realised:… everybody wants someone, with no exception male and female, we want someone to love and who love us in return. Knowing this I've realised that the ones who have found that someone, the partner to share their existence with, are lucky, lucky in the sense that they have simply found someone to share their life with, for how ever long or short…the time they share together is valuable to both. However we are all unique and so finding someone as unique as you IS impossible!!! And I say this because they simply don’t exist, I’ll explain… we may find things in common with others and many similarities exist but in the end we are all different an this makes us UNIQUE, there is no one the same! So we are all DIFFERENT ! These differences can capture us or drive us away… but realizing that we ARE all unique means that we are in deed all different. I figure then, to truly love someone is to accept their differences as well as their similarities and have them accept your differences too. Our differences should be something that not only needs to be accepted but admired and celebrated as that’s what makes us human and unique. I guess if we all took something out of this, hopefully it would be the understanding that 1. everybody needs somebody… 2. we are humans who love, 3. love makes us want to share everything about us, our lives and so 4. we share our differences too. Anyway if everyone wants someone… (eventually) even though they may not show it with their actions, deep down US humans with all our conditioned behaviors eventually want someone to share our lives with and so wasting time living a life of fighting about differences, fighting about insecurities, fighting in general is counter productive… finding somebody to love is undoubtedly something we all do and end up wanting to fulfill in life so cut the crap and love freely and accept your differences as well as your similarities as we are all humans who love and we are all UNIQUE!!!